make sure you can actually live with this person

>>1276
He said he's lived with the guy before.

Pack boxes by room, maybe even part of room. Bathroom stuff in one box, kitchen stuff in another, desk stuff, bed area stuff, etc. Pack one box labeled "open first" containing anything you will need the first day you arrive.

Banker boxes are the perfect size for moving. They have handles, and it's almost impossible to pack them too heavy. They also stack neatly.

>>1277
That's a smart idea, and I'll use it when I have more stuff. As it is, most of my stuff fits in a backpack and suitcase. The rest is suits and paintings.

Would you suggest a safe for valuables and documents?

>>1278
I don't know your situation, where your stuff's going to be during transit, etc. But if you're asking about security storage, then maybe you need it.
You can get a trunk or a briefcase and put a padlock on it if it seems necessary.

>>1278

If you don't trust your roomie, neighborhood or guests, maybe.

Basically, your documents are boring and no one cares enough to steal them. Just put them shits in a shoe box.

>>1243
That. That. That. That. That. Yes. Exactly. OP, fucking do that.

>>1241
Wouldn't it be easy to cheat that system and just sleep on a couch or in a closet to save money?

SAGE has been used.

>>1243
Well, as I said, since OP even puts in the effort to make a post like that, it can't be that much more of a hassle to do some simple math to solve his problem. I really don't see how this is "way too fucking complicated". You'd need about 10 minutes for the calculations.

> just splitting it four goddamn ways is simpler and nobody can argue about it.

Apparently, someone argues about it, and rightly so. E.g. if I was the fourth person in this arrangement, I'd be pissed. I have to live in the smallest room, I get a walk-in closet (big fucking whoop), and I still have to pay the same as everyone else. It seems OP's fourth guy is pretty chill about that stuff or doesn't assert himself very well, but this is by no means not arguable, as you put it.

I also think you must have a severe lack of empathy if you don't get why someone would not take that shit. We're talking about big sums of money that are paid monthly. Amongst me and my friends at least, it's understood that big amounts of money require fair distribution rules to be set in place, whether there's friendship involved or not - anything else would lead to bad blood.

Ugh. Just read the thread in /b/ and realized I wasted my time. This is all pretty childish. Well, it's not like I didn't expect that.

CUNT

>>1247
splitting it 4 ways makes more sense than splitting it 3 ways and having 2 people way 1 third together but your way makes the most sense i will agree

God damn you are annoying.

>>1256
por que?

>>1257
You're more of a whiny cunt than annoying, really.

Ooooh boo hoo this girl is into me but I don't wanna play anymore because phone broek.


This is not /ask/ material. Just do whatever. There's no fixing this tremendous fuckup.

SAGE has been used.

Relationship questions go in /docta/

That said, I'm pretty sure you like dick.
Admit this to yourself and then to the girl.
You could still end up with a dancing partner.

SAGE has been used.

Wait so... there was a mild communication error and now you don't want to go out with her any more? Why not? That seems kind of petty... arbitrary even.

>next semester would be more convenient, and then just don't call her.
Good god, don't be such a passive-aggressive little baby. Be direct, one way or the other. EIther go out with her or just tell her you changed your mind (for god knows what reason) and don't want to go out any more.

You shouldn't worry about labels like straight, gay, or bi, too much. sexuality is often a gray area thing, not black and white. Its not really important to decide, just go with whatever you feel when things happen.

>>1244
This.

I have a friend who has been flip flopping for a decade now. He recently decided he is pansexual after taking about 100 different dicks in the ass over a period of 6 or 7 years. Now he's fucking some girl and is incredibly happy. I guess good guys are too hard to find here, or they're too fickle in relationships. I don't know if he would have had the same experience in sexuality should have have found a nice guy.

I even got jerked off by him and have had some other, not always plesant in hindsight, experiences. I've also had transgender feelings more often than not, but I have a great girlfriend right now so it's not something that really comes to mind regularly, as it is.

It doesn't really matter, even if social pressures make you think otherwise. Also, I still haven't had sex yet and am in my early 20s.

Everybody shut the fuck up, don't worry son you will be ok.

>Hey at least he isn't shitposting.

>Sexuality questions go in /docta/


That is, unless this is meant to become a medical discussion about how OPs amygdala is irregular.
If that's the case, here that goes.

Medical issue -> abnormal reward/response -> nebulous sexuality -> op posts some cat picture titled "photo.jpg" -> you are a furry. Sorry, bro.

This terrible thread is from fucking October. Who bumped it?

SAGE has been used.

>>1164
I GUESS I MUST BE SEEING VISIONS!

>>1168
at least you're not seeing tastes

SAGE has been used.

You do it like this.

wat

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yduuHMe1KQ8[/spoiler]

He meant that he doesn't plan on getting back to you about it at all.

Why didn't you just ask him "uh... wait... do you mean Monday the 19th or Monday the 26th?"

>>1209
just wanted everything to go as smoothly as possible and not stop to make any confusion. its about a job interview. I called halfway between both mondays, which was today. they said they would call me back so im guessing he originally meant 2 weeks

In 2 days, it will be Monday once again, and OP's claim will be once again valid.

except that this thread is a few weeks old. op here, didnt get the job

SAGE has been used.

Suzanne Somers is a futurist?

O, at lvl 30 you would have spent a total 60xp.

You mean the total cost or the cost for that level?
If its just the cost at each level then it's linear at a 1 to 10 ratio. If its total money spent to that point then it's a curve, since it would be that same 1 to 10 plus previous costs.

xp cost=lvl*10

Total cost to reach level X is:

sum( 10 * i, i = 1..X)

We can factor out the 10, since it does not depend on i.

10 * sum(i, i = 1..X)

The sum of consecutive integers is well known, and can be found with some googling if you forget it (like I do).

10 * ( X * (X + 1) / 2 )

Simplify.

5 * (X^2 + X)

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>>1218

You are a very mean man.

SAGE has been used.

DANCE YOUR ASS OFF LIKE THERES NO TOMORROW.

>>1120
I don't see why the thread continued after this reply. This is the answer. Give it your best and accept their choice. You can't force someone to love you.

>>1113
Here's what I did:

1. stop seeing her for a VERY long time (say half a year - 1 year, maybe more)
2. start ignoring her
3. after said time and after you cleared your head be sure to bump into her in a party. make it look like a 'coincidence' you see each other.
4. FUCKING KISS HER, FUCK THE WORLD!
5. you should be able to fill in the summary yourself from here.

really, this works best. your care level should be fucking 0. girls don't like it when you come up to them and act like a semi-gay and tell em you're feelings and tell me you're so unsure and blablabla.
you need to be determined and you don't need to give a shit about things. if it doesn't work out? big fucking deal, there are more girls in this world.

what happened to me is that, after the ignoring phase, the girl was all over me. somehow, the more you chase them, the harder they run away. the more you are like, meh i dont care about you, the harder they want you.

follow my advice, do this.

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>>1204

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZuOKUrwoys

>>1215
amusing video, but to some extend very true.

>>1137
I can give you the whole story if you want. It was quite an interesting experience getting committed to a hospital's behavioral unit. I was only there for about 2 days too. Going in that place made me feel like my own problems were just a raindrop in an ocean, or something like that.

You need to start faking that self confidence now, in this letter. Stop walking on eggshells and tell them like your words should matter.


Points you are trying to make:

1) Thank you for your facility's aid. You have good people working for you. That said...
2) Someone in your employ is a thief, and I expect you to take appropriate action.

If you want to get personal with these folk, that's one thing, but if you want them to look into the fact that you had money stolen from you while you were in a 72 hour hold, then bold that shit out.

Got the money /ask/

Lately, I've been having a tough time and tonight's particularly rough. What are some good things I can do to get my mind off things so I can actually sleep once in a while?

>>1198
Actually, I might have found a solution

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Tr0otuiQuU

as well as a goal

You're writing like you're doing homework for a rudimentary highschool English course. Get to the fucking point and be done with it. There aren't any minimum word counts and these people are busy. Also, don't use "whom" unless you know how to use it correctly, which you do not, and remove all semicolons.

Like >>1148 said, get to the point. Leave out all of your personal life story, because they do not care. Get to the point. This isn't a formal letter. It's a bad creative writing assignment.

Soon..

Find your local 501st group, and contact them. They might have a member with one for sale, and being nerd enthusiasts they're generally pretty on point about having good quality.

Inducing Metal fumes fever may not be a good idea.

>The symptoms are nonspecific but are generally flu-like including fever, chills, nausea, headache, fatigue, muscle aches, joint pains, shortness of breath, chest pain, and cough. A sweet or metallic taste in the mouth may also be reported along with a dry or irritated throat which may lead to hoarseness. [6] Symptoms of a more severe metal toxicity may also include a burning sensation in the body, shock, no urine output, collapse, convulsions, shortness of breath, yellow eyes or yellow skin, rash, vomiting, watery or bloody diarrhea or low blood pressure, which require prompt medical attention.[7] Milder flu-like symptoms will normally disappear within 24 to 48 hours, and someone suffering from metal fume fever will usually feel well enough to return to work the next day, despite the fact that they may still be feeling a little bit under the weather. It often takes 4 days to fully recover.

It sounds like it may do the job too well. I personally wouldn't want to feel that shitty for four days just to get out of a family engagement.

Do you just need to sound convincingly sick over the phone, or will be be seeing family members in person?

I would suggest getting Bee Pollen at a health food store if you have any pollen allergies. I'm a little allergic to pollen and just a small spoonful of Bee Pollen had me stuffy, sneezing, and congested as if I had the worst cold ever. Passed in about two hours. Say you think you may have a flu, because person you know/work with had it when you saw them yesterday and now you do.

If it's not too rude of a question, why are you so desperate to not dine with your family?

find something that makes you vomit, and ingest it. you might not really be sick but it should at least give the appearance you are. i think its called a purgative or something

and make sure that other people know you are vomiting, do it in a nearby bathroom and they will hear it

>>1193
It's called ipecac and it's really unpleasant. He would do better just not locking himself in his room and going to the dining area with his family and eating with them.

SAGE has been used.

drink hobo jizz

SAGE has been used.

why not recreational dispensary. you probably have to go to college or something to sell it as a doctor

What's your back-up plan for when you discover that you're not going to get your "dream job"? Which you're probably not. Dispensaries aren't exactly looking for new suppliers all the time and the ones they find, they build relationships and trust with.

So, what are your alternate plans in life?

>>1183
He can always just grow clandestine marijuana and sell it to street dealers. Or maybe it will become legal enough where he can grow and sell legitimately, like a microbrewery.

>>1183
What's to keep OP from moving to Colorado or somewhere else that it's legal to sell, and just becoming another legal grower/dealer? I doubt the market's going to get too saturated too fast. OP doesn't necessarily need a college education to do so, but it can't hurt and will give him the option of falling back on something like forestry, agricultural research, landscaping, decorative plants green house, etc.
OP should probably take some small business management classes.

>>1180
I am considering moving, but it is gonna take a ton of money to actually start something like that. Also, all the legal stuff that has to go into getting permits and occupying a building... I don't really know how much money I am going to need to actually open up a shop.

>>1175
Thanks, but I can only focus on one emphasis. I kind of want the one emphasis that will get me a job that isn't just working at a dispensary and will allow me to make some money so that I can have money to start up my dispensary. I don't live in a med state.

>>1183
well, pretty much just use this degree to get a good job... I am kind of looking at a degree program that will give me money and also the experience that I will need to actually work at a dispensary. I also might be doing a bit of clandestine cultivation in the meantime. Also, I think that my state will eventually be a med state.

I can still be physically attracted to younger girls, but I find older women to be attractive as well. I am only 21 but I would say that my tastes have aged slightly but noticeably as I have.

It's easy to look at jailbait and get off, but at least for me the point where I lose interest is in her personality. I can masterbate all day thinking about fucking Claire Abbot, but I know if I met a younger girl, even if I was sexually attracted to her, personality issues would probably overwhelm my libido in the long run.

I guess that still leaves open the possibility of being dubbed an ephebophile, but I honestly believe that, especially given generally earlier puberty in girls today, many, if not most men are probably attracted to girls barely aged into their teens. It's not politically correct, but what can you do.

>>1145
It is hard to say whether your age tastes will change. Personally I would say they will not. You are idealizing these women that's what love and attraction to are, (and let's face it, I know I love porn and rap (and drugs) as much as the next if not more than) but these two once unified phenomena are being more and more divergent. You likely idealized some woman in your early sexual years who fit that category. You liked the motherly-ness of her. BDSM people are people who likely were abused physically by their primary caregivers. This is why we find mates in people who are in someways the inverse, some ways the same as our primary caregiver(s). The traits we didn't like in our parents became the ones we get the inverse of. this is likely where the idea of opposites attract came from. In someways however, our partners (or fantasy partners, if one chooses to or is unable to get real ones) tend to reflect the qualities shared by the primary caregiver(s).

For example, I am merely attracted to females. Especially ones with small noses and big brown eyes and big squishy titties and a big fat round ass. But most any female will do the trick if she is attainable. My dick feels mighty fine rubbing up in any healthy and clean female body part. My fetish is sex. I am a hedonist, sirs.

>>1172
Oh and to add:

We likely find mates who also have the undesirable similarities to the primary caregeiver(s) because we are expecting to find their caring and loving nature as well.

I have a rather young(er) preference as well, OP, but in no way do I have a problem hooking up with chicks my age or older.

The taste varies from person to person, as your situation is nothing short of common.

We've all got those thoughts.

I'm turning 29 in a couple of months and I wouldn't seriously date anyone under 25. But just sex, I'm still attracting to 18 and 19 year olds, sure. I don't think that will ever go away. But would I try to date one? God no.

>I have never been good at making shit up or inflating the truth.
Well, don't outright lie then, because if you're a bad liar people will notice. What's the problem with saying you were studying full time, anyway?

I'm not good with lies either, but you could say you were self-employed selling electronics (or Star Wars figurines or whatever) on eBay but stopped because the profit margins were getting too thin.

>>1146

Fair enough, thanks for the input.

find a recently closed restaurant or other place in the area, use a phone number of the friend and say the friend was a manager there or whatever. Have him say you're a good employee.

Go to /docta/, sheesh.

Make sure you find her when she's alone, preferably with her back to the wall/lockers or, ideally, a corner. Make sure you make strong eye contact the whole time, it makes you look confident. You'll be tempted to look away every few seconds but don't. Do not break eye contact, even for a second, it's the only way to look confident when you're as nervous as you no doubt will be.

You need to be bold and direct. Again, it shows confidence, and chicks dig confidence. So don't use any wishy-washy cop-out phrases like "like" and "crush." You need to confess your love to her. Key word: confess. This is not a two way dialogue, this is you laying it all out there, like a fucking man. And make sure you say the word "love" a lot. Ideally, before you go to see her, write out a list of everything you love about her and recite it. It's OK to consult the list. She'll think it's thoughtful that you planned this out beforehand and chicks dig sensitive, thoughtful guys.

Then, you're ready for the final step, which is asking her to be your girlfriend. Don't ask her out for a date or anything; that's a bullshit cop-out for cowards. Fortune favors the bold. So be bold and skip the whole going-on-a-few-dates-to-get-to-know-each-other-better thing and just go for it and ask her to be in a committed relationship with you.

Good luck, OP. Who dares wins.

hao 2 spal

SAGE has been used.

Maybe she was unprepared for her period.

>>1155
This or Urinary Tract Infection. Not fun.

It's slow. Everything on 99chan is slow. But there's no real content limits. I wrote a mixture story/smut love elit about bestiality and young teenagers. You'll probably be okay. You might get some feedback, but it'll be slow.

Plenty of jobs in several industries, and a crap ton of apartments being built in the north Georgia area

>>1115

Move to Cuba land. It's great here, and a Vegas man will surely find some work. Legal or no. Though most likely no.

>>955
Vegas native? I'd suggest not being homeless in WA over the winter. The weather can be pretty brutally cold especially if you're not used to cold, snowy winters.

Northwest is raintown. Have a plan to stay dry.

BTWs, It's piss-easy to find a job in Portland that'll pay the rent. Only reason people are unemployed in this town is because they're too lazy or entitled to put in work.

>>1127
Past the Cascades, eastern WA is pretty dry. Central is technically a desert. Still gets cold as shit though. And most of central's precip happens during the winter.

As a WA native I would not recommend being homeless here, especially if you've never spent a winter here before and are coming from mild winters like Vegas.