I went out last friday with my male friend and two girls he knew. One of the girls thought I was "gorgeous" and she told her friend, who told my friend, who told me. I thought she was cute so I hit on her and got her number.

I call her yesterday (tuesday), no answer. She works a ton, so okay. I leave a voicemail saying hi its blah blah blah called to see how you were doing sorry i missed you we should hang this saturday, hit me up." (I later learned she didn't check her voicemail till today, so hence the upcoming confusion). She texts me saying "who is this". I say its so and so, we were dancing at blah blah last friday, you gave me your #". she texts back "okay haha". At this point I think she's a bitch and give up.

Today she texts me saying "Hey i just got your voicemail, sorry! I never check my messages haha, what were you thinking of doing?".

Unfortunately, I told her what I originally planned on doing, going to a local ted talk event and then dinner and dancing. Even though I get the confusion that happened I'm already over her and pissed off. I already felt rejected and over it. I can't be an asshole though, her friend and my friend have a thing going on so I can't damage anything or it'd be awkward.

The only excuse I cant think of is saying the ted talk is sold out or something dumb, and saying since it's finals right now (thank god) and I fly home early next week that next semester would be more convenient, and then just don't call her.

I'm also debating just telling her what I wrote her, explaining to her why I feel how I feel and saying sorry or something. Would that work?


What do?

tl;dr I ask a girl out who I knew was into me, stupid communication error happens and I think she awkwardly rejected me when she was really waiting for me to make a move. I've changed my mind and don't want to ask her out anymore but she wants to go out.