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No. 823
You guys are just doing it wrong. I've been with more transgirls than I have guys, (and until relatively recently, more of them than cisgendered women) and all but two of them were far more pleasant than male company. Those two differed from the rest in that they weren't really trying at all. One of them was a shitty crossdressing prostitute, and the other was a chain-smoker who got off on degradation. If the only place you see transgirls is porn, and you're chasing that fantasy, that kind of fake bullshit is all you're going to get unless you're willing to shell out for a serious business escort.
To hook up with real transwomen, the ones who are soft and pretty and, as you put it, feel right, you have to demonstrate interest in a person, rather than interest in a fantasy. Even for one night stands, (which are entirely possible) you must at least be able to give the impression that you regard them first and foremost as women, and that you have some understanding of the struggle they have in being accepted as such.
In particular, I should note that I've never been with a girl who couldn't get hard. Most of them still won't top, or at least not on the first date, but girls who can't get hard usually also have a decreased libido, so you're not going to find them on craigslist anyway. The ones that still have a sex drive find most men to be mutually disappointing partners regardless, so they don't usually go fishing either.
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