Go to a hair-cutting establishment and tell them the following:
"Layers, please."

Honestly just try a different hairstyle, or wear it back sometimes.

When I had long hair I would do a kind of samurai like top knot and it looked pretty good. I don't know how it would look on a blonde dude though.

Eventually I just said, "Fuck it," and shaved off all my hair.

>how can I change the style without permanently changing it?
Nothing you do to your hair is permanent because it grows back. You could shave your head and it wouldn't be permanent.

Unless you were suddenly overtaken by male pattern baldness within 6 months.

Why not tie it in a bun?

corn rows nigga!

brother, i used to have a long mane, i had troy polamalu hair, and i rocked it wild and out, in a tight bun, or in a pony tail thing. but then i donated it. short hair feels great. give it a thought. i was nervous and didn't want to, but i wouldn't go back.