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3375 No. 3375
OK, so, relationship issues. Yesterday my girlfriend and i got wasted drunk and she ended up passing out. I woke up whilst she was passed out, watched some TV, rubbed her back, got on my phone here and there, but ultimately got off the bed like 2 hours later to clean the apartment because 1) it needed it, and 2) I figured id clean up and organize the place for her seeing as i thought she would have a hangover. She woke up as I was doing the dishes and asked for some water. I brought her the water and asked if she needed anything else. She said she had a headache, so i rubbed her neck. However, whilst doing so, she had me explain everything I was doing in great detail as she was passed out. I told her, but we just argued, because she was clearly in an accusatory mood/mindset due to the fact that i was in the kitchen when she woke up (she has serious issues about not waking up next to someone that she passed out drunk with). "You could have been on my phone, looked at porn and masturbated, or watched a bunch of TV shows without me. I seriously cannot trust you." The straw that broke the camels back was the fact that when she went to the recently watched program list, there was what appeared to me to be an advertisement on the right of it for something called the "comcast summer hot list" which was essentially a shortcut to all of this summers most popular shows on ondemand. She asked if i watched it and i said that I hadn't. She didnt believe me because it was in the aforementioned list. We argued for a good minute until i was like "fuck it, ill call comcast right now for you so that we can settle this issue right here and now. The thumbnail is way bigger, it clearly looks like an advertisement, and gasp, i never watched it." She got even more pissed because i was "lying yet again," and told me not to bother calling comcast in that moment because "it wouldnt solve anything." She then sentenced me to the bedroom for an indefinite period of time. I decided to call comcast and record the entire convo. I was on hold for 1 hr and 10 mins, but tech support uttered my exact assumptions: it's a promo that will indeed show up in the recently watched programs list, and will be visible until the 26th. I eventually fell asleep, but when i woke up, committed quite the folly. I told her that i had proof of my innocence because i called comcast and recorded the entire convo. When she heard this all hell broke loose because i not only "went out of my way to prove her wrong and drive a point home," but that i was "shady" and ultimately violated her trust by taking it upon myself to call the comcast tech support. So, heres the question: while I understand that i shouldn't have said anything about calling comcast because at that point doing so was merely an attempt to protect my innocence and drive a point home, i do not understand how this was at all shady or untrustworthy behavior. I get it, she didnt want me to call comcast so that i could show her my innocence when i got pissed off about her accusations, but its not like there was a promise in any of this. She simply told me not to call them when we first started fighting because it wouldn't solve anything. Its not like i wasnt abruptly told to "get the fuck out of the living room," and its not like my frustration level wasn't sky high due to her calling me a liar. Any advice? I know this post is pretty long winded. Whatever. TL; DR, etc. I dont care. We have been in a relationship now for the past year and she is a few months pregnant. We constantly get into stupid arguments like this. Now she wants to end it. What should i do?
>> No. 3376
Uhm, end it sounds good. That seems like some fucking stupid shit to get into a fight over, and based just on your post, it seems to be entirely her fault. What, you got up before she woke up so that means you are a lying bastard that... *gasp* might jack off or watch TV shows? What an obvious breach of trust that you got up before her. You've only been together for a year and this is how she acts? You can't possibly imagine yourself long term with this woman.
>> No. 3379
Your girlfriend "is a few months pregnant," and on or about July 20th, you both "got wasted drunk."

Sounds great guys.
>> No. 3387
My advice would be end it. I'm bitter though. I lived with a girl 4 years and gave her no reason for suspicion. True transparency, no locks on my phone or computer. In the long run it became me trying over and over to prove myself to her that I loved her completely and in the end I found she was cheating on me. Her reasoning was she assumed I was cheating so she would cheat first.

The moral of the story is no matter if your cheating or not every time your not in the same room with her she will be envisioning you cheating. No relationship can handle that.
>> No. 3391
Does she always do this or has it gotten worse since she has been pregnant? It could be hormonal.


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