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3129 No. 3129
I just 'broke up' with the first girl I ever dated. It was a couple of weeks and we saw each other about 5 times. She seemed increasingly reluctant each time, and I wasn't into it after our first date. We never even held hands, let alone kiss, and she didn't seem to want to hug me at the end or start of our dates. Some of it may be due to her having no experience, just like me. We ended on good terms, she suggested we stop seeing each other and I just yeah okay. We didn't have any common interests or anything and the time we spent together was just plain awkward. I was planning on ending things and just putting that decision off. There's wasn't and isn't any emotional attachment between us. I've been planning some platonic dates with some other female acquiescence now to screen them for proper dates and I've been considering asking my ''ex'' for advice on how to be a better dater and make it better for the girl and such. Do you think it's a good idea?
>> No. 3132
I don't think you need to ask your ex anything; I think you need to take your analytical approach and tweak it slightly.

For one, select better girls to go on dates with in general—the more shared interests/etc., the better, obviously. Instead of just "planning on some platonic dates," try having group social events be a place to learn about others.

I think you should look more at your experiences yourself before asking your ex.
>> No. 3133
>>3129
I don't think it would hurt anything. You could be friends with her, maybe she'll teach you how to kiss while you guys are kicking it. Or help you date rape other women. See where this goes.
>> No. 3148
So now, I've realised I'm super attracted the stereotype of a super go-getting woman who will go and conduct scams with me. Just like the woman in American Hustle. Do you think this is an unhealthy desire? Can you offer me some guidance on this matter?


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