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No. 3003
This is a terribly tricky problem to solve.
If you didn't live so far away, you could pull the, "Hey, let's change our health for the better - together!" routine. That way, you could go to the gym or whatever together, so you know she's making a change. You could also try to establish healthy eating habits, but there's the long distance thing again.
Honesty is always a super great thing to have in a relationship, but you can bet on bringing up a woman's weight ENDING that healthy relationship in a heartbeat - if she's sensitive of course!
If the whole gym and healthy eating thing doesn't work, you could just tell her that you're concerned with her health. Try bringing up specific points about it such as soda generally being bad for you, stress eating ALSO being bad for her, etc. Have her focus in on you caring about her health. Not to mention, if she takes the whole "eliminating stress eating thing" away, then she'll probably pick up better habits that is going to make her more of a pleasant person.
I think you care about her health anyway, so I don't think you're entirely lying if you avoid the "I don't find you attractive anymore" speech.
Hope everything works out, man!
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