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No. 2556
Hahaha I feel you bro. I am the exact same way. I have a full blown sex addiction and I'm 20 yr old. I've always been really sexual and physical. Porn for 7 years every day no exceptions did not help. AND I'm a Christian so I'm sinning every time. Great, huh??
Right now, I masturbate about every two days or so... whenever it becomes unbearable or when I become super turned on by some girl I saw. I feel like I've been to a lot of places with this issue but I know a lot of people are more experienced than me. I've done over control, not masturbating for 2+ months and on certain days just being in an excruciating amount of internal conflict. I've done non control, masturbating two times a day. Three times I really can't let myself do because I would just feel like complete shit. Besides, the second one is the best and it goes downhill from there.
For me what helps reduce the sex drive is worship music.. bible...praying, etc. But what the above poster said about accepting the feelings and enjoying the positive things about them is good advice. It's kind of like how to conquer anxiety everyone eventually has to find out that they have to live through it and experience it, and eventually it will die down, if only temporarily. Same with emotional pain. Just entertain it for awhile; don't be afraid of it... it will reduce the powerful hold it has over you.
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