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2302 No. 2302
hello /docta/ I've a quick scenario to run past you, and I don't really know how to handle it

First of all, I am male, 20 years old. About, 3 years ago I met this girl. I was 17, she was 15. We really only hung out once. Maybe twice, I can't remember, it was a while ago.

Needless to say, through the glory of the internet and social media, we kept in touch. Never hung out much, ever, but yeah. We went about, a year or so without talking, and just sort of randomly a few weeks ago we started talking. She's 18 now, and I'm 20.

A couple of nights ago, we sort of got riled up on skype, some clothes were taken off, yadi yada. Now it feels like the girl is getting attached. She literally just got out of a relationship, and shes started busting out the nicknames and what not that traditional couples would use with each other.

We live on other sides of the country, and I really don't want to have a long distance relationship with the girl. I'm not necessarily saying that this is what the girl wants either, but I really get the vibe from her.


I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I don't know how to put her down gently either. I really want to kill this quickly before it gets out of control, so she doesn't get like, really hurt by it. I just don't know how to go about doing it.
>> No. 2303
oh, one last thing, and its kind of the thing that really kind of, threw me over the edge I guess you could say.

She sort of just randomly asked if I would be her valentine. Now the thought and all of that is cute, but I mean, dafuq am I going to do, even if I were? its not like I can take her out on a date, or buy her roses or anything.
>> No. 2305
I would suggest talking about this with her.

Really, that is the fairest way to deal with this. Be upfront and honest.


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