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2234 No. 2234
So here's the deal. My sister has this really hot friend who is super into me. Now she got out of a relationship something like last night, and apparently she wants to ask me out already.

I really don't know how to feel about this shit. I mean she's one of my sister's good friends for one. And she just got out of her relationship 24 hours ago. So I'm clearly a rebound but fuck, I don't think I'd mind a relationship.

What do you think? Is dating a friend of a sibling wrong?
>> No. 2235
I see absolutely no problem with you responding to her advances.
>> No. 2236
Who cares? Stick your dick in it.
>> No. 2237
>>2235
>>2236
I like the way you guys think. Maybe I'm over thinking things as per the usual however it just seems scummy hooking up with one of my sister's friends.
>> No. 2239
If your sister doesn't mind, go for it. If she does mind, go for it covertly. As long as you don't mind.
>> No. 2248
>>2239
I mean I actually don't mind, but could you like set up your webcam and kind of leave it on, accidentally, you know???

just asking...
>> No. 2249
>>2239
Good advice man, took it and set up a date for this week. Thanks

Also what>>2248
>> No. 2282
>>2249

>>2248 wants you to record your sex session and put it on the internet
>> No. 2284
>>2282
Unfortunately there won't be any sex session. I went on a date with her and she turned out to be so fucking boring. So boring I actually stopped hitting on her, just wanted the night to end. It was really bad.
>> No. 2285
>>2284
Are you sure she wasn't just being shy, possibly limiting herself so as not to do anything embarassing?

You initially said that you thought you were a rebound, but that's not what I get out of it. I don't know of many girls that would go after their friend's brother simply as a rebound (I guess that would depend on how close the friendship really is though), since that can potentially lead to destroying said friendship. She may have had designs for you for a while and just didn't want to blow her chance by coming off as some kind of yutz.

More details all around would better help us get to the bottom of things.
>> No. 2289
>>2285
I'm positive it wasn't shyness. Her hobbies are pretty well going to the most redneck bar in Guelph and smoking pot everyday. Other than that she does not know anything about anything. Even something as simple as music, she can not talk about. She doesn't know any artists. Besides that she's also fairly conservative and gossips a ton. Two things I find fairly unattractive.

I just couldn't bring myself to continue dating her.
>> No. 2290
>>2289
Fair enough. If you're ever game to try though, you could seize the opportunity to be the world-wise guy that broadens her horizons. If she had a bit of cultural enrichment, she might have better things to talk about than her peers. No pressure though, just a thought.

I would like to point something out about rejecting someone because of "conservativism" though. Relationships with people that share your worldview can sometimes, themselves, end up as being downright boring. When you agree with someone about something, all you have left to talk about in that regard is to gossip about those who disagree. Better, in my opinion, to have someone that challenges (with validity, of course) at least some of your viewpoints, so that you can grow, change, and develop not just your arguements but yourself as a person. Not that I think people should specifically seek partners that disagree with them, but I certainly think that people shouldn't discount potential partners because of it.
>> No. 2314
>>2289
Some people just don't know music. I mean, I know some random-ass shit about it, but I usually end up getting lost because my tastes neither fit into generic pop bullshit nor whatever indie shit is popular. But anyhow, if you don't connect, you don't connect.


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