Hello /docta/. I am coming back on the seat to ask you something.

So recently, I had this guy I met on another message board who had some bisexual tendencies and I usually consider myself hetero or maybe bi-curious at best. He asked me at some point to take a picture of my cock. I was a bit startled by that because it was the first time a guy asked me that, At first, I told him no. Then he kept pestering me about it. I told him a few days ago : ''Maybe at some point but not now''. We have been talking for a few months and he said he sort of liked me although we never met. I was sort of okay with it but I had no intentions to meet up and do anything with him.

Today, I asked him to at least show me his face with a timestamp so I know how he looks like and how old he was which he both refused to do. He then started to go into emotional blackmailing as in ''Show me your cock or I am out. I have been waiting a long time for this''. I asked him to define what is long and he replied ''A few weeks''. I tried to reason with the guy telling him pressuring people when you ask something from them tends to backfire and do the opposite which he said he didn't agree with anything I was trying to tell him and he was clearly butthurt about the fact I would not give him a picture of my cock right away. He then decided to take me off his contact list.

I was willing in the future to do it if he at least proved to me he was of legal age and I wouldn't get into any trouble if I ended up doing it. It was the first time I actually considered showing mine to another guy's and I was sort of okay with it but this situation with how this dude reacted in such a childish way really turned me off about the whole thing.

I want to know in general how same sex relations, serious or not, had an effect on people the first time(s) they tried it.