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75367 No. 75367
My family got hooked into being Jehovahs Witnesess before I was even born, and once I came along I was forcibly pushed into their cult and molested and abused as well as groomed to do the same That shit started when I was around 11 or so, I'm 28 now and it still fucks with me every damn day. I want to get it done and over with but my own family has refused to stand with me on this, so it might be my word versus his, which would be hilarious. I just don't know what to do, you know? I FEEL the weight of it on my soul, it's not something that I can let go, you can't do stuff to a kid for no reason and then get away free and clear. I want to try meeting with him once more, maybe. The first time did he just blathered about my beard being unacceptable for a christian (?) and lied when I gave him a chance to admit his stuff. He went through a whole little ritual and said "Now, since I have stood as naked before you, theres nothing between us, right?" For some reason, I simply asked him if he knew that I had been abused as a child. At that point he cringed and got all jittery, then headed on back to his place.

How would you handle it? WOULD you handle it?
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>> No. 75369
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75369
You can always talk to a lawyer or some shit but I don't know what the laws are like in your place. Suing religions over molestation seems pretty in vogue right now, so it's not like no one will believe you.

I'm not some fucking shrink and I've never been diddled so I dunno about what to do outside of that for sure, but I think it's important to not let the bad things define us, you know? It's easy to get hung up on shit that happened to you, whether it be big or minor, and devote way too much mental capacity to it.
>> No. 75399
lawyer
counselor/therapist

all the best to you, 99bro

if i wasn't so stoned I'd have typed this better but I am trying to convey something
>> No. 75439
How were you molested and abused? Can you go into more details?
>> No. 75444
Call Oprah, or Dr Phil. If that fails call Jerry Springer.
>> No. 75445
>>75439
Not OP but does it matter?
>> No. 75448
>>75445
Uh, yeah. This board is here for entertainment, not advice. There's other boards for that.
>> No. 75452
>>75448
Eh, I wouldn't mind giving advice. But knowing OP's exact situation would help. If the guy who molested OP was a Jehovah's Witness, how did he justify his actions? I'm pretty sure child abuse isn't cool in god's eyes. Maybe talking about what happened from a christian point of view might yield some results, since it seems the abuser is still a believer.

Say something along the lines of "You have hurt me. You cannot erase your actions. You can lie to humans about what you have done, but god knows the truth. I suggest you repent and talk about this with me."

I think it is also important to realize that the reason he cringed and got jittery was likely a feeling of guilt. I think he's avoiding the topic because he wants to forget that he's a bad man. Saying things to help assuage his guilt might make him more willing to talk.
>> No. 75454
run away
run far away
cut off communication with those crazy people
slowly deprogram yourself
become normal
never speak to your crazy family again
run away
run far away
don't look back
move forward
>> No. 75455
>>75367
The bad news is that no one has the power to unbuttfuck you. Worse yet, you're painfully aware that the entire congregation--including your family--who claimed to like you and to love you are very liable to excommunicate and shun you for daring to tell the truth about someone more powerful in the cult than you.

The ballza news is that word is getting out about how JWs try to cover up the misdeeds of high ranking sexual predators in their organization and more people outside the cult are going to--perhaps "understand" is the wrong word, but at least be aware of what's going on.

There's a whole world of people that aren't as evil as the Watchtower Society tells you they are, and they get by just fine not blindly following every idea the Watchtower Society makes up, even the ideas that contradict their other ideas.
>> No. 75458
Befriend others who were abused by Jehovah's witnesses and talk about your experiences. Can you tell us more about the religion, OP? How does it differ from mainstream Christianity?

http://www.silentlambs.org/
https://www.facebook.com/Ex-Jehovahs-Witnesses-Support-118780261481037/
https://www.reddit.com/r/exjw
>> No. 75491
Just cut his fucking head off.
>> No. 75509
Alrighty. This one of the reasons that I...am now,possibly was in the past, and hope to be in the future, one of the relatively few black doods on this site.

Now then, time to do this in 99 style.
(And by that I mean addressing you fine fellows concerns in order of their appearance...not that there WONT be any rapping/screencapping/songs/comics/sbcomics/otherthings made in this post...and in this threads honor...in general...butt uh...lemme kick it off then.)

[taq,loadup a vox code for me please mahnigga]
[veddywellsir.voxcode...has been loaded.SIR.]
[alrighty, 4/4 it is then.]

RAWR

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win i was a
[glassbreaking.snd]

WIN EYE WAS, AYE
[BLACK HOLE BONUS]

WYN I \/\/45, 4 YUNG 1337
[WEAPONX]

[WOLVERINE.VOX]
ITS ME KIDS, AND IM LOGAN

AND THIS KID HERE, HAS BEEN TO, HELL AND BACK
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)

[TAQ, TAG IM OUT...THEN BRING ME IN]

[SIR,HE TAGGED OUT, THEN RAN OFF, THEN SNIKT'D ME, THEN SNICK-ERD, AS HE LEFT]

Ok then, I'll spit now, but not ness, a sarah, lee in fo fo
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)

seven five, four four eight
u right dawg, this here board, aint for dat
there's otha, broads fo dat
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)

>>75452
indeed mate, but he just, insulted, me for my beard and then
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
tried to get, me to re,join that cult/slash religion
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
And then he, insulted, me so i, shot back that, he was old
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
He let me, get beaten, by two guys, while he sat, and and got his watched it all
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)
>>75454
deprogram? Great answer, I'm trying, but ooh lordy it is tough.

>>75455
I hear that, it's awful, they stockholmed us prety bad
.>>75458
I have been, you'd like it, id let in

>>75491
I want to, i dreamed it, and in that, dream i did, worse than that
[Meaning I put my knee, into the, small, of his back, and made him a scorpion man]
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)

I might just vocaroo this whole thing one day and send it to chicken digga mah nigga
(BOOM, CHAK CHAK, BOOM CHAK CHAK)

Thanks so much, y'all niggas, is crazy, but still the best chan around!
>> No. 75516
what the hell just happened to this thread? is OP the black, jehovah's witness reincarnation of tiny?
>> No. 75518
*Holds up lighter and slowly sways side to side
>> No. 75519
All blacks should be raped, it builds character, of which they are lacking. The ones that watch Dragon Ball Z tend to be okay though.
>> No. 75521
>>75519
That's just science.
>> No. 75556
>>75519
I don't know about rape, but making everyone watch Dragon Ball Z so they'll tend to be okay is a ballza idea.
>> No. 75560
>>75556
Too much filler. I don't trust people who like Dragon Ball Z. Too much filler.
>> No. 75561
>>75560
Filler episodes are one of those things we subject children to because they teach children the virtue of patience. Real life often seems to have filler episodes that only offer a pointless and canonically dubious distraction from the main story arcs of people's lives, so it's ballza that they learn about that sooner rather than later. It's much easier to accept the inevitable pointless bullshit in one's own life when one can see even Goku himself having to fritter away 30 minutes on the hard, tedious work of shouting and increasing his power level.

Of course, filler episodes are something to be outgrown, like Santa Claus or Jesus. That doesn't make them useless concepts, however; you can still learn from them all the same.
>> No. 75566
Your mom is one long fill-her episode.
>> No. 75568
>>75566
Like that baby carrot between your legs could fill anyone.
>> No. 75832
Oooookay, I'm back to baseline after some...binge drugging, but I wanted to try to keep this thread alive because I will do my best to get evidence abs recordings of all conversations I have with any jws, if possible.

When I made that post in song format I was ludicrously high, so forgive my lack of attention to detail.

As far as that religion goes, it has been completely subsumed by the negative state for a very long time. The members are often fine folks, but being in that sect/cult/religion/lifestyle/ means a few things, which I'll explain to the best of my ability.

1.You (We) are better and special and different from THEM (outsiders). THEY have NO morals, are to be pitied, looked down on and condescendingly "taught" the error of their ways and cajoled/convinced/persuaded/guilted into the religion so that they can be turned into zombie units that go proselytize others. There used to be extensive training and such about how best to defeat any augments and such, but over the years new bible books came to light and the head honchos got sloppy with telling us zombies not to read them. That is what triggered (lol) me, because you don't tell me not to read something, or I'll read it, at least back then. I was big into hardening myself by reading the worst things I could find and seeing how they affected me. I ended up finding dozens of books of the bible that had been hidden and covered up for not a Damn thing.

That sparked a wildfire in me and I tried for months to talk to people in the religion about what had happened, but they just made excuses, even the higher ups.

I'll be contacting the abuser this month and will let you dudes know how things are coming along.

Thanks again for all your help and advice, I'm going to handle this shit and get on with my life. Much love 99
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