In what regard?

Who you are and what you fear and what to do with your lfie and whether or not you desire large dongs in your asshole.

>>71802
Introspection. Even then, it requires honesty with yourself which is impossible for some people called narcissists.

Okay, so what if you're super fucking narcissistic and you want to develop yourself anyways

>>71808
Admitting that you need further development as a human being means you're not a narcissist.

"Figuring yourself out" is not some kind of video game quest where you obtain an item and go into a dungeon and kill some enemies and get self-actualization at the end.

And as someone else says, it depends on what. If you're confused sexually, look at lots of different porn or go out with certain people and figure it out. If you don't know what you want to do with your life, use the internet to learn about as much stuff as you can and try to find a topic that you like and hope that you can make a career out of it.

It's easier to find the 99% of the things you hate, than the 1% of the things you love.

>>71813
that's why it's called 99 chan

  If it's any consolation: most of the people who act like they've "figured themselves out" are lying to themselves. They put on a happy façade because that's what polite society expects everyone to do. Hell, as far as you know there are plenty of people in your life envious of you for having things figured out that they never would.

This wall full of Teddy Ruxpins spewing emotions should drive that point home.

>>71816
I don't think it's really a matter of all that, it's just a matter of knowing who you are and what you're about. If you're a pedo jacking off to loli cartoons all day and are just waiting until the day that stops becoming fulfilling so you can kill yourself, you've figured yourself out. Doesn't necessarily mean gununu has to stay like that, he can change now that he knows who he is and what he's about. Or at least try. It's not destiny, is my point, and you might have to re-evaluate over time.

>>71795
That's an excellent way to phrase the answer to daft questions I seem to get so often.