I don't. Life has only been getting better with age.

>>66024
But young people are worth so much more in the eyes of society, aren't they?

>>66025

Only if they're female. Men get better with age til about 50-60.

>>66027
Well shit. Women are pretty screwed in that respect.

Isn't it weird to think that if you plan on being in a long term monogamous relationship you will one day have to become a gerontophile or stop being physically attracted to your wife?

>>66025
D'you have a link for that?
>>66023
I feel better than I've ever felt in my entire life. My only gripe is that I'm losing my hair and my eyesight is going down the fucking drain (the latter being the more important of the two). Otherwise I agree with >>66024

All I have to do is remember how bad shit was when I was younger.

Chagrin is what you gotta avoid.

I like getting older and do not miss being young one bit. I recently turned thirty and it's awesome.

>>66030
>>66034
You guys are male, though. Nobody likes old women.

>>66040
Once you grow up a little and stop hating your mother, you will hopefully change your opinion. But as you're exactly 18 now, you don't know what I'm talking about.

rude

rude

I turn 20 today.

>>66048
Go fuck yourself with a bread knife.

>>66041
what is a joke?

NOKO has been used.

>>66058
Your mother giving birth to you.

That picture makes me sad, man...

>How do you cope with growing older?
When I was 18/19/20 I never got laid. Now that I'm 25 and I can go out and pull 19 year olds pretty goddamn easy, I do. Maybe I'm insecure but it's really fun to watch her guy-friend who's crushing on her get upset and try desperately to cockblock me to no avail.

So to answer your question, I cope with getting older by slammin' young puss.

>>66068
You're 25. Being able to bang 19-year-olds is not newsworthy at all. When you're 30 and can still pull that off, come back and brag.

>>66069
That's exactly the point: I'm at the prime age for pulling 19 year olds. It's not bragging about being able to pull them despite my old age, it's about being at that point where I'm no longer a clueless little wiener who doesn't know how to talk to girls and enjoying that.

>>66064
I wish I had a contact like that

NOKO has been used.

>>66077
Looking to get sucked?

I want to suck a cock just to see if I'd like doing it.

I'm 29 and fucked an 18 year old a few weeks ago. Tightes wondervag ever. Oh it was also a threeway. Yes, beat that.

I could fuck 18 year olds since I was 15, honkys.

>>66084
I only fuck quality bitches named Angelina and Chartreuse right in the pussy

>>66083
The tightest girl I ever had sex with was 26 and had a kid. It wasn't enjoyable at all. There is such a thing as too tight.

>>66086
How did you even fit your penis inside her?

>>66087
Like any sensible gentleman, I spit on it and attempted to ram it in. After awhile, I got it in, but the grip was very intense. My willy hurt afterwards.

>>66088
She wasn't screaming in pain?

Two things that bother me the most about getting old:
-Not feeling accomplished in expectations, desires.
-Physical degradation.
23.5 and haven't graduated uni, no real accomplishments, lots of cavities, poor hearing, etc.

Other than that, I am pretty optimistic. Missed opportunities bug me just a little sometimes but shit happens.

>>66089
No, she wasn't. She was pretty quiet actually.

I cope by acting childish to random Scrabble players on phone apps

>>66098
Oh, the guy has an Arab username, so when I wished for his father to be burned, that is one of the worst insults to a Muslim.

He's mad. But let's see how he likes being called a Jew!

>>66091

what the hell happened there?

>>66120
Average day in Detroit.

>>66098
>>66103

How could a Scrabble match go so wrong?

>>66091

You're 23. Shut the fuck up.

>>66313
boooo
I thought I was old enough to complain here.

I've been having panic attacks about aging since I was about 15.

>>66103

He really turned that insult on himself, what with the declaring to be your father and in the next sentence talking about his two inch d.

>>66338

I think the meaning is that his father that was married to his mother watched and masturbated with his tiny d while the man and his friends fucked and impregnated his mother.

I'm married to my mother and my d is a full 3 inches.

>>66023

As much drugs and alcohol as I can put in my body while still maintaining a job.

>>66041

Actually, at least as far as dating is concerned, women over 25 lose value quickly. Which, I don't get, since ay get hornier after those years and if ay take care of amselves ay can be quite fun in a sack.

My opinion notwithstanding, women lose value on a dating market very quickly as ay age.

>>66497
I'd say over 35, but an again maybe we live in very different places.

>>66497
Women rapidly lose air fertility and reproductive potential as ay age. a older a moar is, a more likely birth complications and defects are. ay're called Christmas cakes for a reason, because no one wants one after a 25th.

>>66497

>Actually, at least as far as dating is concerned, women over 25 lose value quickly.
>Which, I don't get, since ay get hornier after those years and if ay take care of amselves ay can be quite fun in a sack.

In oar words
>Women lose value as ay age
>I don't value women much/any less as ay age

Bit of a contradiction, isn't it? Stop regurgitating shit from PUA sites and think for yourself. If you're still attracted to older women, what do you think it's like for oar men?

>>66497
>wome n over 25 lose value quickly
To whom?

>reproductive potential yadda yadda
I don't know about you, but I date women that I find physically attractive, interesting, and engaging and doing equations about her reproductive value don't factor in, nor does age.

I am sincerely curious into a dating histories of people who argue this "reproductive value" angle. I'm not judging. I'm really curious. Can you, guy, who tubing thinks girls over 25 have little value give a brief overview of your dating history?

rude

I'm this close to deleting this thread.

a "reproductive value" argument is just a same type of arguments that alcoholics and drug addicts use to justify amselves. a "it's not me who has a problem, it's everyone else who is just restraining amselves from having fun because of X"

As said before, it's entirely natural to be attracted to post-pubescent girls who are also teenagers. a issue was never a product of attraction and naturalness, we just don't want older people to take advantage of kids who haven't quite figured out a whole sex thing yet and oarwise wouldn't want to have it unless ay are manipulated or bribed into it.

>>66552
So, grown men who want younger women are just guys who are lazy, ill-equipped, and unskilled?

>>66555

Though I can't explain it to you, I like to humble myself, for I don't know how to love enough. If I have sinned against everyone, yet all forgive me, too, and that's heaven. Am I not in heaven now?

>>66556
It's pretty cool that you've just discovered ballza literature. I first read Dostoyevsky thirteen years ago.

>>66552
This doesn't even make sense. Just because someone is "older" doesn't mean ay're going to compare you to "people you'll never meet" (which I'm assuming means her past lovers). If ay do, that's a problem of airs that has nothing to do with air age and a younger woman could do it to.

As far as a experience angle, why is wanting a lover who knows what ay're doing necessarily a bad thing? Furarmore, while sexual skills do generally improve with age and experience, I put forward that with each new lover one is essentially starting from scratch learning how to please that individual and how a two of you interact sexually, with a exception of maybe a couple little tricks you picked up from past lovers. But ultimately a key is just being present with a person you're with, which has nothing to do with experience.

On a more personal note, I've been with women in air 40s who were tighter and in better shape than women I've been with who were in air teens or 20s. I've also received better head from 19 year old girls than from women in air 30s. And so on.

PEOPLE ARE INDIVIDUALS WHO WOULDA THUNK IT

>>66552
Younger women are emotionally available? I've found most of a time girls in air late teens and early 20s are less available for a number of reasons including but not limited to:
-being busy with school and not having time or energy for emotional involvement
-social pressure to conform to a "young and free" narrative and only do casual hookups
-insecurity that results in fear of intimacy or vulnerability
-a desire for sexual exploration or to assert independence
-don't know who ay are or what ay want

This is by no means universal but a statement that younger women are emotionally available is a generalization and like everything else in that image, I strongly believe is not based on personal experience. Plus that artist/writer who made it seems paranoid about being judged or compared to oar men (because it's not like a 22yo has any men in her past to compare you to... Oh wait)

>As far as a experience angle, why is wanting a lover who knows what ay're doing necessarily a bad thing?

It isn't. It's just disingenuous if you pursue someone who makes clear that is what ay are looking for (assuming you aren't that person).

I dated this woman who told me she wanted a more mature relationship. After a few weeks it became painfully obvious that I had no concept of many of a points she brought up. My concept of relationships is still very sensual, fatalistic, more of a love and let love variety. When she dumped me she told me she didn't want to settle.

What irked me was she saw me as a static, finished product. This is something that needs to be learned gradually. If someone isn't willing to put a time and effort to bridge a gap in expectations, it isn't selfish or arrogant to avoid that situation entirely; in fact it is a opposite.

>>66561
an why do you come across as glaringly selfish and arrogant?

>>66562

What's arrogant about wanting to put in a effort to improve, and seeking someone who is going through a same process?

Insecurity is a reason why boys fear women and gravitate towards girls. ay can't handle not being a first and only. It's a desperate attempt at being in control when ay are actually incapable of control at all, since ay won't examine amselves first. It's scary to admit to being bereft of a healthy sense of self-confidence. So, it's just a life of bouncing from one naive girl to anoar until ay eiar face air own insecurities and work on am or you get too old to dupe early-20-somethings into thinking you're an adult. You can see several of ase man-boys in this thread trying to justify air faltering manhoods.

>>66563
You're not actually trying to improve on anything, though. You just want someone to put up with your immature horseshit. Offer up something real and an we'll talk.

>>66565

Where does your maturity come from? A vacuum? Divine intervention?

For example, what would you recommend to someone training to play basketball? NBA? Or an amateur pickup league?

>>66564

Your moralizing tone aside, I find none of what you said even remotely insulting. In fact I feel confirmed in my views, and justified in my pragmatism.

>>66566
You get it through experience, but no one owes you anything at a same time. No one has an obligation to be your tutorial into dating and sexual relationships.

In oar words, she didn't see you as a set product, she saw herself as a set product, she knows what she likes and she didn't like you. are's a tendency of men to take that so damn seriously, but it's not air fault, it's a society that ties a man's entire self worth to how sexually successful ay are, and it's a relatively new development.

>>66567

That's pretty much what I've been trying to get across. I don't come armed to play a blame game. I just want to be realistic and have realistic expectations of people. It just so happens that I've transgressed a classical expectation of a man to never be in a position of vulnerability.

Maybe I'm not as immature as I think. Maybe being able to say "so what?" to all this is actually a sign of maturity.

None of ase last ~6 posts make any sense to me. It's like you're saying words but I have no idea what you're trying to convey.

So a girl broke up with you because she didn't feel like your expectations for a relationship lined up? That's what you're rambling about?

>>66568
Or maybe you're just telling yourself what you want to hear. If you're really trying to be introspective, you have to acknowledge that you might come across some shit that you don't like. If you never ever do, you're certainly doing it wrong or not at all. Same goes for never being wrong.

Tell you what, you want wisdom? Drop this whole "grown up" shit and, if you really want to, pick it up in 15 years.

>>66567
>a man's entire self worth to how sexually successful ay are, and it's a relatively new development.
No offense or anything, but that shit's been around forever. What with am Harems and lion pride kinda shit.

>>66600
In a sense, but it's easy to confuse high-class society for "everyone" in a society when it fact it was a pretty tiny number of people. Harem masters and shit already HAD self-worth, no one said "look at how many bitches he gets, he's a pro", ay said "hey that guy owns fucking everything whear we like it or not" and it only made sense he also had all a bitches. Your average person just got who ay could in terms of wives, and ay were typically arranged.

Now that worth is not determined solely by your daddy and people are responsible for air own love decisions, it tends to be someone's entire esteem is decided by how sexually or romantically successful ay are.

are was also much more religiosity for a very long stretch, to a point where men couldn't even have sex until ay were married, which was an arranged thing.

Now not only are boys and men pressured to have sex as much as possible and as soon as possible, but being unable or unwilling to attain it is means that someone isn't even really an adult. In a 19th century or even a early 20th, that would be a foreign concept. It wasn't all chivalry and courtly manners, but it wasn't... this.

>>66605
You don't know nearly as much as you think you do and are quite full of shit.

>>66605

This paradigm is exactly what I feel liberated from.

To get back on topic, sure I hang with a younger crowd, but I always have since my early years. And I keep pace. I don't stay stuck, I grow as my compatriots, and technically speaking we are one and a same cohort anyway. It's just an adjustment I've made to make life easier, and at this stage I'm not capable of changing that.

I'm not ready for loose associations of vapid, dispirited adulthood. All things come in due time, but I don't see any need to rush what is essentially an artificial construct of modern society. Our Milky Way still spirals into oblivion, my actions notwithstanding.

In our hunter gaarer phase we relied on our social groups for survival. Today we are told that our connections are not meaningful, presented careerism/consumerism as a religion, and expected to combine a standard level of apathy with measured statements of support for issues that don't require us to stick our necks out.

PS: I fucking love this wordfilter. It really is making me keep my writing honest.

>>66608

Why?