Haha, dude. Ignore most of the shit you hear on the internet about alphas and betas. It's perpetuated by insecure, ignorant dudes who are bad with women. It oversimplifies human dating relationships and promotes insecurity in people that follow it.

Yeah, you probably could've kissed her, but it's not necessarily a do-or-die. Besides, she's still talking to you. In fact, she SOUGHT YOU OUT to talk to you, and she agreed to go on another date with you! It's only your only anxieties that are causing you to construe it as negative.

Sometime during your next date when the mood is right, yeah, tell her you wanted to kiss her but you were shy. As another shy person, she will understand and probably think it's cute. Then she will probably kiss you.

Your biggest problem is your anxieties.

>>3382
Thanks bro, I don't think i'm shy, I just was afraid to kiss her at the wrong time or something because she is shy, and there screw up, I'm kind of anxious even. Yesterday we talked in the school break because she had asked, but today she was in class and not talk in school break. but at the exit I found her and asked her if she was not to runners and she said she was in the classroom, but she told me "what do you think of us go out sometime next week?" that's good, I'll kiss her anyway like a man! and never do it again in my fucking life... do you think that there is possibility that she be thinking I'm looser?

>>3383

No, dude. You're just nervous because you don't have a lot of experience. As you navigate the waters, you're going to learn when to initiate things much better. It's just a matter of practice. :)

It also sounds like you have a lot of issues with self-esteem, which is the biggest thing holding you back. Have you considered therapy at all?

>>3384
I think it's not the problem, I just hate to loose or something like that,and I'm ancious, In this ocasion I think I fail,but nothing is lost... and she said i'm so handsome and like things like my hair and others.. I know one guy who have related with her in the past , I look so much better than he, Body and face.
I worry too much about what she will think about me, but anyway, fuck that shit! I'll do it right this time and that's what matters, thanks for u support bro

I'm a shy female and I have been in a very successful relationship with a shy male for the past year. Want to know what got us together after a long period of mutual shyness and awkwardness? Alcohol.